Had a post trick-or-treating potluck with a few dozen of our neighbors. Ate way too much cheese dip while watching the children slowly dissolve into sugar-filled, sleep-deprived monsters.
Here is Korra painting a pumpkin minutes before totally losing it because I said she couldn't have any more candy
Went on a date with 3 other couples from our church and neighborhood to a Thai restaurant and then to the oh-so romantic destination of Old Navy where we all bought a pair of jogging/sweat pants. Living the dream.
Today's Red Ribbon Week theme is "Tam Up Against Drugs" so I'm supporting my favorite quiddich team the Gryffindor Lions (ensemble includes tshirt, jacket, scarf, and earrings). Feeling pretty clever for my librarian-ization of this theme day.
Took the afternoon off to get Danny to his dental appointment and then to get his social security number. We found out he has 10 cavities (one on which needs an immediate root canal) and that the SS office closes at noon on Wednesdays. Not the best afternoon.
Finally met with THE teacher (plus the counselor and principal). The teacher was very defensive, the counselor and principal were helpful and supportive. I talked about Danny's past, our hopes for his future, and what I needed to help him be successful. The teacher softened a little by the end and I was able to finally get an answer about what make-up work he needs to do (though still not why he got a zero in the first place). Best of all, the counselor changed his schedule so he'll have s different teacher next semester! Here's hoping for an uneventful 7 weeks until then.
The Chili Cook-Off was packed. I saw quite a few former/current students and coworkers as we walked around and tried chili. Korra's Princess Leia costume didn't even last 20 minutes (it was pretty hot). On the walk back we stopped for burgers and hot dogs at Charlie Joseph's and ice cream at the Medicine Cabinet.
Korra gave herself a haircut at school today. A chunk out of her bangs that is thankfully not too noticeable. But they sent the cut hair home in a bag.
The teacher I'm having the issues with couldn't come to the conference yesterday so now I've gotten the assistant principal involved. How did I become THAT parent?
Korra suddenly named her baby doll. The doll formerly know as Baby is now Memma. No idea how she thought of it, but it's pretty cute. Also worth noting that though several stuffed animals and dolls sleep in her bed, Memma is the only one she won't sleep without and us also the only toy she regularly asks to take with us places.
I forgot to mention that Nate started a new job. He's working as a teacher's assistant in the mornings at the elementary Montessori school. They were looking for someone full time, but decided they'd rather have Nate for the morning than someone else all day. Of course, this is in addition to watching Korra plus her two Daytime Sisters (4 years and 9 months old) all afternoon. I'm a little sad that he won't be able to help out around the house as much (you mean I have to go to the grocery store and fold laundry now?), but so happy he has this great opportunity.
She hasn't responded to my request for written assignments in the future (so we know exactly what she expects from Danny) and when I asked her what she meant by including SAT vocabulary in the essay, she responded by copy and pasting a definition of SAT. No mention of if there's a list she's getting these SAT words from or if she wants definitions or what. She must know (since I've emailed her a dozen times from my school address) that I am both educated and interested in specifics. She's just being a turd. So I called the school counselor and set up a parent-teacher conference for Monday.
On Friday I noticed that Danny's grade is his literature dropped from a 95 to a 47 because of 3 zeros on essays. I immediately emailed the teacher asking what the assignments were and if he could make them up. She responded with a complaint about Danny's behavior in her class- that he just smiles, laughs and "pretends" like he doesn't understand her when she tries to help him. Could that be because he actually doesn't understand her?! Anyway, in the next 12 emails I try to get clarification on what exactly these assignments are. I speak perfect English and gave a master's degree (and I've read the book they are reading for class) and I'm still not sure what she wants him to do. Not only does she not have the original assignment to show me, she doesn't have the work Danny turned in. So Danny and I spend an hour last night looking over the chapter he's supposed to be writing about (including examples of all the figures of speech) and I realize that not only has he never written an essay, he doesn't actually know what an essay is. And though The Hunger Games is hardly a taxing read, it's still way above his current reading comprehension level. I know he's a high school student and teachers want to encourage responsibility and independence at this age, but Danny is not a typical teenager (at least in his education) and he needs an advocate at school to be successful.
After 2 phone calls with HeatWorks, we found out that while they will reimburse us the expense of the water booster heater, they will not reimburse us the expense of having professionals install not one but two of these boosters. They'll send us a THIRD replacement but we'd still have to cover the cost of installing that one. I am so frustrated but not nearly as frustrated as Nate is since he spent a good part of the day in the crawl space dealing with this. (So thankful for our neighbor who helped both last night and today). So we're out $450 and gave nothing to show for it.
Brought a stack of books to read with the students in English class. Then I brought a book to read while I ate my dinner at Chick-fil-a for our school's spirit night. But I ended up talking with former students about books. I'm such a stereotypical librarian.
It only took me 4+ hours and an order from Amazon but I figured out how to connect the brand new Chromebooks to the smart boards/projectors (which of course are older and lack HDMI connections) AND how to get around our school's firewall so I could do a Google Hangout with 4 teachers. All in preparation for tomorrow's Google Hangout with celebrity scientist Steve Spangler! Fingers crossed it goes smoothly!
I was debating whether to let Korra go to school today (picture day) with her usual headband (Nate's default hair styling) or to wake her up almost 2 hours early so I could fix her hair. Found a good compromise when my sweet neighbor offered to come over and fix Korra's hair before school. Our neighbors are the best!
Today our IT department is bringing a large truck to haul off 25 overhead projectors, 30 large TVs, 3 ancient scanners, 6 VCRs, and a couple of boxes filled with miscellaneous old keyboards, cables, mice, etc. It is a very exciting day!
Nate, Danny, and Korra all left to help with a 5K this morning. This means for the first time in I don't know how long, I am alone in my house for an entire hour. Lovely.